I’m not very good at keeping up with this journal keeping… Having my life full of so many different commitments isn’t conducive to having time enough for myself. Unfortunately I come rather far down the list of priorities. Obviously the children and Mum come first, as well as other family. Then friends and pets who join my ever growing list of responsibilities. I’m still chairman of our primary school’s PTA (where the girls attend,) am on the community centre committee including various sub-committees, unit leader of the local Rainbows group, deliverer of the monthly parish magazines and council notes and now to add to my burgeoning list we are fighting against the arrival of enormous pylons that are due to pass through our idyllic village on the way to Heysham from the new nuclear station at Moorside. (More about all that on another occasion though!) Oh! And I also help at our local youth club and at the after school gymnastics club. (Although those I don’t mind because the girls are involved I would be there anyway.)
My Great Aunt and Uncle (my Granny’s youngest sister) are housebound in our local town so along with a couple of other family members we help and shop for them. We have a very small family. I am an only child and have very few relatives. I want to be able to help them so much more but they are a very proud couple and although they really are desperate for help they will not accept any (professional or otherwise.) It’s definitely a worry…
Since we last spoke, Mum has lost 95% of the use of her left arm which has meant that she can no longer drive. More responsibility for me but we do get to spend more quality time together. She so hates strangers in the house helping her and having to waste (although very necessary) time attending hospital and dental appointments.
To add to my chaos I have caved into the children’s demands and have accepted a stray kitten into the house. Meet Maceo! A tiny black tom with a white tip on the end of his tail that he loves to chase! He really is very cute. I’m not a massive cat fan but he can be very adorable and so funny! He has fitted in perfectly and gets on so well with everyone (even Walter in small doses!) We now have various cat toys underfoot and have to have regimented feeding times so that Walter doesn’t eat his food first! Walter’s coat is looking amazing at the moment 😂
September was birthday month for Connor and I so we now have an ever growing fourteen year old and well I’m another year older!! Connor chose to take a friend to Blackpool Pleasure Beach for his birthday (yes I was scared!!) and I just had a peaceful Sunday at home with a lovely family trip for a bar meal in the evening. Lovely to just have a family day.
October is the girl’s birthday month so the lists are growing daily and in wild directions. We have gone from a rabbit to a mallard duck for Meggie. I suspect a soft toy might be the answer!! All the children are still playing Pokémon so I sense a theme for their day!
Must get on with ‘real’ work!!

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